marriage....

It seems like a lot of my friends now days are rushing into marriage! It worries me! Especially because most of these people are getting sealed in the temple (a very good thing yes when you are ready) I was always told to know 100% that the person you marry is the one you want to be with for eternity. That word right there scares the heck out of me! I mean think about it... its not until death do you part. For me this means its the biggest decision of my life! Im not going to marry the first guy that comes my way! I'm going to pray about it. Date for a while and make sure 100% that he is the one I want to be with through thick and thin for eternity! This brings me to my next point. I feel dating guys who are worthy to take me to the temple is so important. I was talking about this to one of my friends who was surprised I only wanted to date LDS guys. For me getting married in the temple is better than never getting married at all. I want an eternal family. I want my family to have what I didnt growing up. I loved my childhood dont get me wrong and I love my family but I hope someday we will be an eternal family. I know I sound so Molly Mormon but its something thats very important to me along with making sure I marry a guy I know I will love for eternity and not rush into things. I know it can be hard. I cant wait to get married and love the idea of a family but I'm not going to rush into it and possibly ruin my life and future children's lives. Its such an important decision and I wish more people would take time before they get married. I mean at least date a few months! You dont have to propose 2 weeks after you started dating! You have time! Be patient! If this offends anyone thats not the point of this. Its just how I feel and how I'm worried about my friends who are rushing into things!